Name: Ibrahim (‘Memo’)
Profile: Gay Iraqi refugee in Turkey
Advantages: Excellent English and people skills, educated
Risk: Death at the hands of his father or one of his proxies
Sponsors and Supporters: John Sakeris, Rufus Dickinson, Sven Dickinson , Joan Grusec, Robert Lockhart, Jack Brannigan, Linda Hutcheson, John Hutcheson
Born in Baghdad in the early ‘90s, Ibrahim had an ordinary family life. His father was a real estate agent, his mother was a housewife, and he had two younger brothers and one older sister, now a teacher. Memo always knew he was different.
Memo graduated from high school and studied at university, but had to drop out due to financial constraints. He worked as a supermarket clerk, store supervisor, cashier and chef to help the family pay the bills.
By his early twenties, Memo fell in love with another young man his age, and often stayed with him at his apartment in Baghdad. They kept their relationship a secret. Being gay is a crime in Iraq, and many LGBTQ+ people are killed by militia, the government or their own families.
In 2017, his father discovered the truth.
In June 2017, after harassing him for months, his father did the unthinkable.
Memo went to a friend’s house and hid from his father for over a month, while making arrangements to cross the border into Turkey.
In August 2017, he arrived in Turkey and registered as an ‘asylum seeker’ with the UNHCR office in Ankara, and with Turkish authorities. They assigned him to live in a city about four hours from Ankara.
It was a smaller and conservative community, where Memo faced further discrimination as a gay man and as a refugee. To add to his difficulties, his father has made an effort to discover his address, and called the police on his son, telling them where he lives.
LGBTQ refugees like Memo face “double jeopardy”: they suffer criminalization, violence and discrimination in their country of origin, and often also experience these same dangers in their asylum countries before they are resettled.
While he escaped violence in Iraq, his life is stil in danger in Turkey, both from his father and from the local citizens who hate those who are different.
In February 2019, Memo was attacked by two Turkish men who were brandishing knives. He reported it to the police, who did nothing. They also failed to act when his father started making threats to find him.
We are looking for a group of five caring people in Toronto to sponsor Memo to Canada and help bring him to a better life. He is a hard-working, very sweet and resourceful young man, who would make a wonderful and talented addition to this country.
As a highly vulnerable gay refugee, Memo is eligible for private sponsorship to Canada through the Rainbow Refugee program.
If you would like to join the effort to bring Memo to safety, please contact his supporters John Sakeris and Rufus Dickinson,
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